Last Friday Night

This blows away my Monday blue ;)

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当你太爱一个人的时候，他就不会很爱你了，

因为他看准了你不会离开他，哪怕他把你伤得一塌糊涂，

他自信只要用一个爱字，就可以把一切抺平，

这样一个人是不值得你去爱的。

这样的人太过自私和功利，爱自己远胜于爱你。

他的自尊、他的骄傲、他的需要都要比你的爱来得重要。

你尽管很爱他，但你永远是他最后一个选择，

而他的心思要 用在那些得不到的人和事上。

所以，他不会很爱你，

而这样一个不是很爱你，暂时也不想用全部的心思和时间去爱你的人，

是很容易被这个世界诱惑去的，

他不属于你，不只是现在，还有未来。

爱上这样一个人，爱他越多，伤自己越深，

这样的爱会让你失去自己。

不要去宠着别人任由他来伤自己，

不妨留一点爱和自尊给自己，

那么，有一天，他也许还会认真地爱上你。

一个不很爱你的人，爱上他，就意味着：

你不停地等，不停地投入自己的时间和感情，

结果只能是一个无法预知的未来。

这样的感情，不如放手。

一个不很爱你的人，你可以站在远处欣赏他，

但不要去爱他，因为你付出的不论多少，

对他都没有太大的意义，而对你却是一种潜在的伤害。

人生太短，情太脆弱，经不起太多的伤害。

不要去试图爱一个不很爱你的人，

你的爱再深，他也不懂。

要相信你自己，世界这么大，

终会有一个人非常的爱你，

而你也会非常的爱他。

所以，不要把自己的爱给那个不很爱你的人，

还是把它留给最爱你的那个他吧。

爱是一生的事情，需要两个人完成，

只有两个心里有爱的人，才能牵手穿越尘世的风雨，

一起走向爱的地久天长。

放弃不很爱自己的人，

让心去等待一个懂你、惜你、怜你、一如爱他自己一样爱你的人，

这样的等待，再久也值得。

Movie's Review: Going The Distance

It's one of my favourite movies of the year, it's so so so nice~!!!

It's about how a guy and a woman struggle in their daily tedious work, finally bump into each other and found their true love; how they learn to trust and tolerate each other despite the far distance.

Funny and horny, creative and sexAy, really laugh my head off and keep laughing like crazy even walking out from the theater hall. I personally like that "MAYA, STATUE!"

GROWN UPS and DESCENT 2

Watched Grown Ups and Descent 2 during weekend.

I truly feel that GROWN UPS is a warm and meaningful movie. A respectful coach passed away and his previous champion teammates met. After 30 years, the grown ups together reminisce their childhood and share their current stories. They teach their children lessons of life, cherish the moments to be with their loves. It tells us to forgive, forget and forgo unhappy time, yet value everything we have learnt from it. Treasure every little things in our life and daily events may be lifelong lessons for us.

On the other hand, Descent 2 is a totally opposite movie. With all the bloody violence scenes, it makes me feel nausea especially when seeing the blood oozing out like tomato sauce. I have my excessive heart beating and feel like sweating when watching and screaming, hoping the characters escape away from that shitty cave with their all efforts. Anyway, it is a high rated movie and I think you should watch it. Be prepared to be scared~

Someday- Rob Thomas

You can go

You can start all over again

You can try to find a way to make another day go by

You can hide

Hold all your feelings inside

You can try to carry on when all you wanna do is cry

And maybe someday we'll figure all this out

Try to put an end to all our doubt

Try to find a way to make things better now that

Maybe someday we'll live our lives out loud

We'll be better off somehow, someday

Now we wait

And try to find another mistake

If you throw it all away then maybe you can change your mind

You can run

And when everything is over and done

You can shine a little light on everything around you

Man it's good to be someone

And maybe someday we'll figure all this out

Try to put an end to all our doubt

Try to find a way to make things better now that

Maybe someday we'll live our lives out loud

We'll be better off somehow, someday

I don't wanna wait

I just wanna know

I just wanna hear you tell me so

Give it to me straight

Tell it to me slow

'Cuz maybe someday we'll figure all this out

We'll put an end to all our doubt

Try to find a way to just to feel better now

Maybe someday we'll live our lives out loud

We'll be better off somehow, someday

'Cuz sometimes we don't really notice

Just how good it can get

So maybe we should start all over

Start all over, again

'Cuz sometimes we don't really notice

Just how good it can get

So maybe we should start all over

Start all over, again

Random

Just a random post on this familiar old song that will cheer u up whenever u r down...

DUN WORRY, BE HAPPY^^

Here is a little song I wrote

You might want to sing it note for note

Don't worry be happy

In every life we have some trouble

When you worry you make it double

Don't worry, be happy......

Ain't got no place to lay your head

Somebody came and took your bed

Don't worry, be happy

The land lord say your rent is late

He may have to litigate

Don't worry, be happy

Lood at me I am happy

Don't worry, be happy

Here I give you my phone number

When you worry call me

I make you happy

Don't worry, be happy

Ain't got no cash, ain't got no style

Ain't got not girl to make you smile

But don't worry be happy

Cause when you worry

Your face will frown

And that will bring everybody down

So don't worry, be happy (now).....

There is this little song I wrote

I hope you learn it note for note

Like good little children

Don't worry, be happy

Listen to what I say

In your life expect some trouble

But when you worry

You make it double

Don't worry, be happy......

Don't worry don't do it, be happy

Put a smile on your face

Don't bring everybody down like this

Don't worry, it will soon past

Whatever it is

Don't worry, be happy

Plus a hot dance from SNSD *.*

simply light up ur day~ cheers!

A meaningful assignment

Hope

by Brian Quinn

When all about you is black with gloom,

And all you feel is pending doom.

When your bones are racked with grim despair -

When every breath is a gasp for air.

Keep on going, though you need to grope,

For around the bend is a ray of hope.

A ray of hope is perhaps all that's left,

As your will to live has been bereft.

You've lost it all, it's just no use!

You can end it all, you need no excuse.

But throw away that piece of rope,

And give yourself a chance of hope.

Just give yourself another day,

Brushing aside what your thoughts may say.

This is your life and you can make a new start,

By ignoring the brain - just follow the heart.

Taking baby steps in order to cope,

And minute by minute you'll build on your hope.

Build on your hope,. one day at a time,

Though the road be steep and hard to climb.

The hurts of the past - they should be dead.

The fears of the future are all in your head.

Just live in the present and refuse to mope

Your life will sparkle for you're living in hope.

Task

Write in a paragraph of about 150-200 words on your perspective of this poem. You may include your experience, if you wish to share with your classmates.

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When I was small, I did everything with happiness by following my heart. I finished my homework quickly because I wanted to play around with my neighbours and I read because I wanted to know about the story. When I was in secondary school, there were changes in my value of 'success' by adding in the context of dissatisfaction. Harsh competition among peers and judgement by teachers had been taken into account for studying process. Everyone around me was striving to score straight As in examination. However, through the years under such circumstances, I have learnt to focus on learning process instead of the result.There were times I wallowed in self pity when I encountered negative things in life. Somehow, I have realized that positive disposition is important in life because it is the source of happiness. Failure is not frightening and we should learn to recover and mend it. I have tried to look on the bright side of life whenever I am sad and gloomy. Similarly, from this poem, it stated that "for around the bend is a ray of hope". Everyday, there is hope waiting ahead so we should give ourselves an opportunity to embrace the happiness of life. Lastly, listen to the voice deep inside our hearts and live life to the fullest.

Life is full of beauty. Notice it. Notice the bumble bee, the small child, and the smiling faces. Smell the rain, and feel the wind. Live your life to the fullest potential, and fight for your dreams. You are the center of your universe, and you can make anything happen.

Songs

Fall in love with Alicia Keys recently. Like her new album very much.

Empire State of Mind, Try Sleeping with a Broken Heart, Doesn't mean anything.... Songs that accompany me for dull assignments crazy-ing days...

and the song that I like to listen recently which was introduced by my roomie -

<暗示> by 方炯镔&弦子

2012

Just a short review.

Expect it to be more reality one but it's greatly exaggerated. Only those who have power, luck and wealth survive. Think I would be one of the dwellers that crashed into pieces if it's really the end of the day.

To choose between YOU and OTHERS, struggling at the last moment to survive. I guess it is humanity to be selfish, couldn't say no but bet there are very few good guys out there to save the day and sacrifice own self. AND there is no such lucky thing to be survive at the very last moment when DEATH is just inches away. Just as the process of the main character to embark for the ship, no way for someone to be lucky enough to survive under such circumstance.

Kinda disappointed, thought the movie would be a nice one, maybe I expect too much. Lol~ After all, I prefer The Day After Tomorrow.

Keep thinking, what if 2012 is really the end of everything? I have many things that I haven't do or experience, hardly say good bye to the world. haha~ Guess I might plan my backpack trip around the world before everything is falling apart and cherish every moment with my family and friends.

Just don't think too much, lol, CHEERS for the day. We are ALIVE.

Mika Nakashima

The very first time I noticed this COOL girl is from the movie 'NANA'.. Like her voice..

Her new released album 流れ星~ Fall in love with the song 'Memory'~

Memory (feat.DAISHI DANCE)
Lyrics: Lori Fine Music: DAISHI DANCE

I keep a bag of my memories
Here on the seat that is next to me

Watching every town go by
So beautiful the scenery
Everything I feel comes alive
Sweet tears fill my eyes

I’m forever with the memory
I see reflections in the night
Hand in hand
At sunrise
You and I will arrive
Memory

One photograph that I keep with me
Gives all the warmth I could ever need

Train tracks become a lullaby
Think back to how it used to be
Everything I feel comes alive
Sweet tears fill my eyes

I’m forever with the memory
I see reflections in the night
Hand in hand
At sunrise
You and I will arrive
Memory

The train will be leaving soon
I’ll be with you
No there is no time to lose
I’ll be with you
I’ll wait for you in a dream
I’ll be with you
I’m deep in a memory
I’ll be with you

I’m forever with the memory
I see reflections in the night
Hand in hand
At sunrise
You and I will arrive

I’m forever with the memory
I see reflections in the night
Hand in hand
At sunrise
You and I will arrive
Memory




Another great song from the same album~

久违的藤井树~新书 《流浪的终点》。

第一次看见这个书名就被它吸引了，因为我时常告诉身边的人我要流浪，我也时常写一堆关于旅途的诗。我用了一夜的时间读完它，细细咀嚼小说里的文字。

这无疑又是本关于人生- 友情、事业与爱情的故事。

这一次，藤井树把各个时间点的经历穿插在故事的各个角落，好像在回忆，寻找失去的人生拼图。故事讲述人生的抉择，主人阿洛为了一个梦想飘洋过海，与好友、情人相隔一个太平洋。找不到流浪的意义，却发现了旅途的终点，而终点始终又回到了原点。

人生就是这样，我们不断地想尝试与挑战，为了梦想而付出。没有履行对自己许下的承诺，会后悔一辈子；付诸行动，则令身边的人、事、物有所改变。而这些改变是我们想要的吗？我们也无力衡量这一切，毕竟有得必有失，并没有一个秤可以具体衡量获得与失去的重量……

所以选择梦想并没有对错，因为我们无法预测未来，没有完成梦想反而令我们的人生留下遗憾，而遗憾是沉重的……

“常常，我们迷惘着现在，感叹着过去，同时寻找着未来，

这种感觉，好像在流浪一般……

只是，究竟为什么我们必须漂泊？

离开妳，开始我的流浪，这么做，有着什么意义？”

~摘自《流浪的终点》

'Father and Daughter'

Meaningful animated short film..
~ Sad synopsis but with lively music.. About a daughter who waited the return of her daddy.. Day in day out on the brink of a lake..

杀手

雨水沿着帘帐轻轻低落在桌角，在夜的浓重下，有种廉价的诗意。

黑色的雨伞停在塑胶斗篷下，一只沾满各种颜料的手，伸出伞。
撑伞男人的动作，仿佛是一连串蓝色调镜头的切换所组成。

经纪人将牛皮纸袋交给G时，忍不住叹了口气。
G转身走人，黑色雨伞隐没在飘着细雨的暗街。

很有杀手挽歌的诗意。
应该放在电影结局的一幕，却只是故事的开端。

~摘自《杀手-登峰造极的画》

这是我第一次接触[九把刀电影院]系列的书，以前常看[爱九把刀]系列。
觉得很不错！
~以不同的手法描述不同的杀手，让人屏息！

陈绮贞- 鱼

我坐在椅子上

看日出复活

我坐在夕阳里

看城市的衰弱

我摘下一片叶子

让它代替我

观察离开后的变化

曾经狂奔

舞蹈

贪婪地说话

随着冷的湿的

心腐化

带不走的丢不掉的

让大雨侵蚀吧

让它推向我在边界

奋不顾身挣扎

如果有一个怀抱勇敢不计代价

别让我飞

将我温柔豢养

带不走的留不下的

我全都交付它

让它捧着我在手掌

自由自在挥洒

如果有一个世界混浊的不像话

原谅我飞

曾经眷恋太阳

很欣赏她对音乐的执着，没有华丽的包装，只有纯朴的内在。

这是一首我很喜欢的歌。

陈绮贞。我欣赏的你。创造了我的。另一种平静。

A Poem

A beautiful poem written by a teenager who suffered from cancer..

SLOW DANCE

Have you ever
watched kids
On a merry-go-round?
Or listened
to the rain
Slapping on the ground?

Ever followed
a butterfly's erratic flight?
Or gazed
at the sun into the fading night?

You better slow down.

Don't dance so fast
Time is short.
The music won't last

Do you
run through each day
On the fly?
When you ask
How are you?
Do you hear the reply?

When the day is done
Do you lie in your bed
With the next hundred chores
Running through your head?

You'd better slow down
Don't dance so fast
Time is short.

The music won't last
Ever told your child,
We'll do it tomorrow?
And in your haste,
Not see his sorrow?

Ever lost touch,
Let a good friendship die
Cause you never had time
To call and say,'Hi'

You'd better slow down.
Don't dance so fast.
Time is short.
The music won't last

When you run so fast
to get somewhere
You miss half the fun
of getting there..

When you worry and hurry
through your day,
It is like
an unopened gift...
Thrown away.

Life is not a race
Do take it slower
Hear the music
Before the song is over.


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I really like this poem. Life is short..
Enjoy our life, live with happiness~
And do what we like..
Slow down our pace and see the world..
This world is big and beautiful far more we can imagine..

Nodame Cantabile

Nodame Cantabile 《交响情人梦》是一部关于某音乐大学学生为各自的梦想而奋斗的anime..

“身为名钢琴家之子的优秀音乐大学生千秋真一。想要赴欧学习指挥，却因为飞机恐惧症而一直无法出国。某天，不可思议的少女野田惠，突然出现在他面前，住在圾垃房里的她，是个无可救要的怪人？这少女的出现会对真一有什么影响呢？”

里面有好多好听的古典音乐，莫扎特~贝多芬~巴赫等……
很喜欢《巴黎篇》的片尾曲--〉东京 et 巴里
故事围绕着钢琴~小提琴~乐团指挥……

有机会大家一定要看~！

痞子蔡

蔡智恒的新书……

回眸

“佛说前世五百次回眸，才换来今生擦肩而过。
我相信，我们前世一定回眸超过五百次。
所以我不要跟你道别，也不要跟你约定。
将来某天，我们一定会再见面的。”

《回眸》一书由三则小说组成——《遗忘》，《回眸》和《遇见自己，在雪域中》。
痞子蔡还是保持一贯的作风，卖弄文字，故事幽默有趣，但也感动至心坎。

摘自《遗忘》
原来墙上每张照片只跟我有关，
并不是[遗忘]的装潢或摆饰。
每张照片都代表着一段已被我遗忘或即将被我遗忘的记忆。
我不禁一张张细看墙上的照片，但我无法陷入回忆中。
因为我根本没有记忆。

一年前，这公园被选为第一座都会区内的营火虫復育公园，市政府在公园内野放两千只萤火虫。隔天傍晚，便有很多家长带着孩子，拿网子和玻璃瓶，很高兴地来捉萤火虫。
你看到后很生气，开口骂那些家长：“你们都是这样教育小孩吗？”
但他们觉得你反应过度，多管闲事。
根本没人理你，你只能眼睁睁看着萤火虫在玻璃瓶内乱窜。
过了两个星期，公园里再也看不到萤火虫。
当最后一只萤火虫消失在公园后，你就很少来公园了。
那时我在庭园咖啡厅内，看见你经过门口，背影像只疲惫的萤火虫。

我最爱的两本书：

与咖啡结下不解之缘的我~


《六弄咖啡馆》~藤井树

人生，像走在一条小巷中，每一弄可能是一条出口，也可能是一条死胡同。

生在一个与一般人不同的家庭中，是我人生的第一弄；
爱上了妳，是我人生的第二弄；
注定般的三百六十公里，是我人生的第三弄；
失去了妳，是我人生的第四弄；
母亲的逝去，是我人生的第五弄；

在这五弄里，我看不见所谓的出口，出现在我面前的，尽是死胡同。
该是结束的时候了，该是说再见的时候了。

再见世界，是我人生的第六弄。



《等一个人咖啡》~九把刀

曾经，有那么一间咖啡厅，我推开了它的大门，
迎面而来的醇香浓馥是恋爱的氛围，脸泪水的饱含甜香。

曾经有那么一个男孩，可在他粗大掌心的，
除了暖意的友情，夜空中的绚烂烟火，
还有悄悄滋长的恋爱纹线。

一切都在这小小的店铺里上演着，等一个人咖啡。

摘自某网站。。。我很喜欢的诗。。

to everything there is a season and

a time every purpose under heaven

a time to be born, and a time to die;

a time to plant, and a time to pluck up that which is planted;

and time to kill, and a time to heal;

a time to break down, and a time to bulid up;

a time to weep, and a time to laugh;

a time to mourne, and a time to dance;

a time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together;

a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from ambracing;

a time to seek, and a time to lose;

a time to keep, and a time to cast away;

a time to rend, and a time to sew;

a time to keep silence, and a time to speak;

a time to love, and a time to hate;

a time for war, and a time for peace.